In this delightful interview with Diana Black, one of the “WOOFERS,” I learned about the amazing philosophy of the women who wrote this book—one that Baby Boomers, as well as others, can surely identify with.
1. I loved perusing your website, with all the references to “dawgs,” etc., along with the paw prints on your WOOF book cover. How did you come up with the concept of comparing Women Only Over Fifty with the cute reference to a dog’s life?
Thanks for your wonderful comments about our website, and particularly for having this WOOFer on the Dames of Dialogue Blog!
Okay, the concept behind “WOOF: Women Only Over Fifty” may be one of those “you had to be there” stories. But I’ll give it a shot…On a girls’ weekend the year I turned 50, a lifelong friend, Carol Proffitt, who is a bit longer in the tooth than me, jokingly made a comment. Heading for a shower she suggested we form a club of women only over 50. I called through the bathroom door, “We could call it ‘WOOF,’ you know, for Women Only Over Fifty?” She howled. I howled. And the deed was done!
We invited Mary Cunningham who eventually co-authored the book and Dot Patterson. Melinda Lyons joined the pack a year later and helped write “Women Only Over Fifty.” We all love dogs and are a bit imaginative so milking the heck out of puns and references to canines was not much of a stretch for us.
2. How did you first come up with the idea of making the most of life after fifty?
I’m of the belief age is a state of mind. HOWEVER, there was a span of time after I turned 50 when I swear all I did was growl about everything and thought at any minute I just might bite someone! I discussed it with my gynecologist who suggested the mildest dose of HRT (which, by the way, I think every WOOFer must make that decision for herself after consulting with a doctor). The cloud lifted and I thought, there IS life after 50! If I had not gone through such a painful emotional patch I might not be such a champion for other women to enjoy every day to its fullest.
3. Are you working on another book right now, and if so, what can you share about it?
At this point we do not have another WOOF book in the works, but are developing tips for WOOFers called “Accentuate the Pawsitive” which will be a download through Echelon Press.
I’m co-writing a mystery with WOOFer Mary plus working on two children’s projects: one is a seasonal chapter book; the other an interactive picture book for young readers.
4. It sounds as though you draw your inspiration for your books from your own real-life experiences. Would you like to share a bit about that?
Yes, WOOF is a nonfiction collection of stories, poems and limericks written from our personal lives. Our thought was, we can’t be that much different from other women over 50. Let’s connect with them on the “get real” level and do it in keeping with our subtitle which is women over 50 are “still puppies at heart.”
5. What is a typical writing day like for you?
I’m one of those wake-up-and-stumble-to-the-coffee-pot-and-then-the-computer writers. Love that early-morning mental mist, before the tasks of the day overwhelm me. It’s gotten easier over the years to grab a minute here and there to edit and jot down ideas.
6. Promotion is a big part of the writing world these days. I imagine that your blogs and your WOOFer club are a big part of your marketing plan. How did you come up with these ideas?
Our publisher, Echelon Press, gave us great guidance. For example, a marketing plan that began months before the release date. It can be overwhelming when an author understands all the opportunities that are available. So after you pick yourself up off the floor, you figure out what works best for you and your personality, do those things and then stretch even further. An author invariably must go beyond his or her comfort zone. There are many books and blogs on book marketing for those who are self-publishing or just want more info.
7. From the positive reviews you have received, I can tell that you have definitely tapped into something that readers can relate to, especially those of us in that age category. Did you feel that you had found your niche when you began this book?
Naturally we hoped baby boomers (of which there are millions and millions!) would relate to our book, but initially we wrote it for us. I think that’s how some of the most rewarding work begins.
8. From your website, I see that you have a wide variety of talents, from designing, illustrating books, to grant writing and songwriting. Did these varied talents appear gradually over the years, or have you always been multi-talented?
That’s a great question. I’ve always “felt” like a creative person, but lived in fear for far too long. Even during my songwriting career, I played the game of writing commercially rather than truly exploring my inner creator. It was not until I turned 50 that things began to “pop.” Once you authentically open your creative heart in one area often times it inspires and frees other talents.
9. What is your most cherished reader reaction from your books?
When a woman buys the book for herself. Oftentimes we buy humor books for friends before we’ll treat ourselves. So at a signing when I ask who the book is for and I hear, “Me!” I want to hug that woman! And I love the way they say it with such pride.
10. Who or what has been the biggest influence in your writing career, and why?
Mrs. Elam. My high school English/Lit teacher. Her dark eyes could see into your soul. And her hands, they were very expressive when she talked. She’d get excited about a book passage and grab her black-rimmed glasses off her face, then use them like a conductor’s baton to engage students with her passion.
11. What part of the craft of writing has improved since your first book?
Another great question! I would say self-editing has shown improvement. Less of the kind that beats the writer up and more of the kind that benefits the writing!
12. The Dames love animals. Do you have any pets? If so, tell us a little about them.
Well, actually Jack and Purrl don’t know they are pets, so I’ll have to handle this delicately or hope they never read this interview! We have brother and sister rescue kitties who are settling in nicely. By that I mean they are finally getting us trained. We’ve had sibling kitties in the past and love their relationships. For many years I had a toy poodle named Pompy who gave me such joy during his life as well as some special material for “WOOF: Women Only Over Fifty.”
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December 23, 2009 at 12:23 am
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December 23, 2009 at 12:35 am
Betty Dravis
Hey, LAUREL and DIANA, you have been TWITTERED, and believe me, it doesn’t hurt a bit! (Meaning that I Tweeted about this blog on my Twitter page…LOL)
Great interview, RAINY DAY, and interesting answers, DIANA. Clever idea for this book; inventive, and I love the way you Woofers came up with the title. I’m thinking of writing one with Women Only Over Eighty. How does WOO-EEEEEEEEEEE sound? (I would probably write it all alone because I’d be hard-pressed to find another my age that is still writing legibly… LOL)
THAT said, I’ll leave you with these famous words: WOOF-WOOF (which in doggie speak means Holiday Hugs.)
HH, ladies,
Betty
December 23, 2009 at 8:48 am
Caitlyn Hunter
Betty,
Hilarious! Now I have a mental picture of you driving down the road in a pink cadillac convertible shouting WOO-EEEEEEEEEEE! WOO-EEEEEEEEEEE!
WOOF-WOOF to you too!
Caitlyn
December 23, 2009 at 3:00 pm
Betty Dravis
How about a pink PT-Cruiser… For me to be able to plant an image in that creative imagination of yours is a real comp! You’re the best, Caity-Did! LOL
December 23, 2009 at 9:47 am
Diana Black
Oh, Betty, you have a winner with WOO-EEEEEEEEEEE !! What a delight you are. May be all have your attitude & humor at whatever age! WOOF-WOOF backatcha! And I hope you’ll stay in touch with our blog at http://www.WoofersClub.blogspot.com. We always welcome your kind of “pawsitive” spunk!
Diana
December 23, 2009 at 3:07 pm
Betty Dravis
Thx, DIANA… I just visited your WOOFERS blog and love the Santa poem, the Julia Childs blog and all… I get a kick out of those women stressing over turning 50. Been there, done that…and it is painless. Believe me, the best years are yet to come.
I’d love you to check out my website, if you have time during this busy holiday season; be sure to check the celeb section. (But don’t get jealous of me and Clint-baby…lol)
http://www.bettydravis.com
WOO-EEEEEEEE to the sexy WOOFERS.
Holiday Hugs – Betty
December 23, 2009 at 7:21 am
laurelrainsnow
Thanks, Betty! I’m falling off my chair with laughter, thinking of your book for WOOEEEE! You are one in a million, that’s for sure!
Happy holidays!
December 23, 2009 at 3:08 pm
Betty Dravis
Hey, RAINY DAY, I am seriously thinking of publishing my big baby blues on the cover of my book of short stories and anecdotes and calling it: THROUGH BETTY DRAVIS EYES… Would that work?
Merry Christmas to all,
Dr. Avis
December 23, 2009 at 8:42 am
Caitlyn Hunter
Diana, as a fellow WOOFer , I can’t wait to read your book! Love the idea and it sounds like just what most women need when they get to that dreaded “certain age.” You’ve got the right mindset–life is a gift to be celebrated each day, no matter how old you are!
Thanks for sharing this great interview, Laurel-Rain and Diana!
Caitlyn
December 23, 2009 at 9:50 am
Diana Black
I couldn’t agree more, Caitlyn! (And by the way, love your name. Same as my granddaughter who is visiting right this minute!) We are wise to celebrate each day, regardless of age, and how wonderful to know there are WOOFers out there passing along this “pawsitive” attitude to each other and those younger pups! As I mentioned to Betty, I hope you’ll check in often to http://www.WoofersClub.blogspot.com and share some of your good nature!
Diana
December 23, 2009 at 3:10 pm
Betty Dravis
U r absolutely right, dear Caity…
I treasure my gift and I’m glad Diana and the WOOFERS reminded me.
Hugs – Betty
December 23, 2009 at 9:05 am
laurelrainsnow
Thanks for your comments, Caitlyn. I, too, need to add this book to my stack! I’m certainly not getting any younger! LOL.
December 23, 2009 at 9:55 am
Diana Black
Laurel, thank you so much for this opportunity to visit and share at Dames of Dialogue. You have a spirited following and I’m having so much fun “meeting” these amazing dames. Oh, and this is kind of cute considering the “Dames” approach you all have taken. Our email to contact me and the other two authors (Mary Cunningham & Melinda Lyons) is GreatDames@WoofersClub.com ! Again, appreciate the interview…Your questions were awesome!
Diana
December 23, 2009 at 3:11 pm
Betty Dravis
Oh-haha, DIANA … Great Dames (since you love dogs, it brings to mind Great DANES)… Very clever with words, indeed…
More hugs – Betty
December 23, 2009 at 10:25 am
marycunningham
Great interview, Laurel and Diana – from a fellow WOOFer! Loved the reminder about Mrs. Elam. What an inspiration she was to all her students!
Mary
http://www.marycunninghambooks.com
December 23, 2009 at 11:13 am
laurelrainsnow
Thanks for stopping by, Mary. You “dames” have a great-sounding book and club.
December 23, 2009 at 3:14 pm
Betty Dravis
LAUREL, I never thought I’d meet any DAMES as spunky/funky as we are, but the WOOFERS come close… hehehe
Me-eeeee again… xo
December 23, 2009 at 3:12 pm
Betty Dravis
Hi, Mary, Glad to meet you this holiday season, too.
Woof-Woof,
Hugs – Betty
December 23, 2009 at 3:26 pm
marycunningham
Back atcha, Betty. You sound like our kind of WOOFer! And I think your book idea sounds fabulous!!
Thanks, Laurel and D of D for hosting Diana and WOOF.
Happy Holidays!
Mary
http://cynthiasattic.blogspot.com
December 23, 2009 at 11:12 am
laurelrainsnow
Diana, I am chuckling here as I note your e-mail address “Great Dames.”
Thanks for stopping in and commenting!
December 23, 2009 at 12:21 pm
christytilleryfrench
Raine and Diana, this was such a fun interview to read! Count me in as a WOOFer who has put this book on my Christmas list! Cannot wait to read it.
Christy
December 23, 2009 at 3:16 pm
Betty Dravis
Hey, Christy, You have to get this book for more than one reason; also because of your love for doggies… Keep up your great work with those humanitarian organizations.
Luv ya, sweet Southern Bell,
The Sunny Cali Dame (oops, Laurel is too)…
December 23, 2009 at 12:42 pm
laurelrainsnow
Thanks for stopping by, Christy. Hope your holidays are wonderful!
December 23, 2009 at 8:02 pm
christytilleryfrench
Betty, you are just too cute. Sunny Cali Dame – love it!
Yes, I love dogs, ain’t no doubt about that!
Raine, this interview was just great and I really enjoyed it.
Happy holidays to all you great Dames! Love y’all,
Christy
December 24, 2009 at 8:42 am
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December 24, 2009 at 9:56 am
laurelrainsnow
HAPPY HOLIDAYS, TO ALL THE DAMES…And that includes are honorary Dames, the WOOFERS!
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December 26, 2009 at 9:10 am
Shannon
I need this book. A good laugh between the hot flashes would be welcomed. Maybe we could all form a club and read it at that 3 AM peri-menopause wake-up call.
December 26, 2009 at 4:20 pm
Mary Cunningham
3 AM??? Uh…maybe not. But, we can guarantee great laughts with WOOF!
Mary
December 30, 2009 at 2:03 pm
Eileen Williams
As a fellow WOOFer and friend of the book and the blog, I add a hearty howl of congratulations for the upcoming “Accentuate the Paw-sitive.” Here’s hoping 2010 brings each of us WOOFers lots of pats on the back and many tail-wagging good times!
January 1, 2010 at 8:47 am
maggiebishop
Love the interview. I understand the comment about fear keeping the creative side in a tight box. Even though I’ve written four novels, it is hitting me hard right now with the fifth. Your words may help me break out of this writing funk. Thank you.
January 1, 2010 at 10:51 am
laurelrainsnow
Thanks for commenting, Maggie! It’s great how another writer’s words can sometimes do just that!